My MIL Demanded I Give Her a Key to Our House Because ‘That’s What Good DILs Do’

My mother-in-law, Diane, was a force to be reckoned with. She had a way of making her presence known in our lives, often without being asked. When she demanded a key to our house, claiming it was what good daughters-in-law did, I knew I had to take a stand.

I remembered the day Josh and I got married, and Diane’s reaction to our engagement. She had seemed surprised, even disapproving, and I should have taken that as a sign of things to come. As our relationship progressed, Diane’s boundary-pushing became more frequent. She would offer unsolicited advice, rearrange our furniture, and even toss out our snacks without asking.

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But the final straw was when she walked into our bedroom while I was breastfeeding our daughter without knocking. That was when I knew I had to set some boundaries.

When Diane asked for a key to our house, I knew I had to come up with a plan. Josh suggested giving her a key, but I was adamant that we shouldn’t. Instead, we came up with a clever solution. We gave her a key to Josh’s old bedroom at her house, and when she tried to use it to enter our home, she realized her mistake.

The conversation that followed was tense, but ultimately, Diane understood that we needed our space. She even apologized and acknowledged that she had overstepped. From then on, she made an effort to respect our boundaries, and our relationship improved.

It was a difficult lesson for both of us, but in the end, it was worth it. We learned to communicate our needs and boundaries, and our relationship became stronger as a result.

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